*After not being reachable by cell phone for a couple of hours, she's super angry at me and says she doesn't like "changes in my behavior"
*I hit it off with one of her male friends and she snidely asked me, "So, what, are you going to switch back to boys now?"
*While we were on the phone, I emailed her a link to a beautiful lesbian engagement photo shoot in Seattle. So she got PISSED and said that I was lying to her because she doesn't like it when I'm on the computer while we're on the phone. I woke to text messages saying that I’m a liar, and that she trusted me and how now she doesn’t believe anything I say because I was "sneaking around on the computer." Followed by an email spanking. A small excerpt:
"I am so upset for so many reasons. If you wanted to be on the computer then just tell me. The kicker is you actually sucked me in and said that you wanted to get the computer out of the way before you called me. Then, without telling me, you were back on the internet. Then you tried to minimize it, to tell me it was only to send me a link. Your actions felt deliberate and misleading. It would have been so simple for you to tell me first that you wanted to go send me something on the internet. I can then choose to wait or not. It gives me some autonomy, some control of the situation. The only thing I want to be powerless about is things that don’t involve me or implicate me."
*I became Facebook friends with a woman (exactly same situation as me: 34, married for ten years, now is gay...divorcing) who lives across the country and she was convinced that I am going to fly there to sleep with this woman.
*She was upset that I was hanging out with a female friend (also gay) not because I was hanging out but because I didn't "tell her in advance."
*We went to a concert in a bar, it wasn't really my thing and I didn't really enjoy myself. On the way home, she berated me for about twenty minutes, saying that I ruined her good time and I was a liar for not saying that I wanted to leave.
*I received flowers from another woman (totally unsolicited on my part.) Girlfriend broke up with me. By email. At night.
Tell me, am I going crazy?